Cancer is an Chance: The Secret changed my Life

Von Sonya Ruben

Sonya is 29 - recently pregnant with her second child. Happy, content, fulfillled - just when her world got turned upside down in an instant. Cancer is the devastating diagnosis. Struck by a rare tumor, with almost no hope for cure by Medicine. Doctors predicted her a rather short lifespan.
But Sonya fights. She wants to live - at all costs - particularly for her children. An she made it! Ten years after her diagnosis it's a matter close to her heart to encourage people in similar hopeless situations and to help.

• Sprache: Deutsch
• Herausgeber: neobooks
• Erscheinungsdatum: 7. Feb. 2018
• ISBN: 9783742751676

Buchvorschau

Almost every illness is related to this one

Why do we hear about so many peop­le suffering from cancer? Why are we helpless against this insidious disease? What has changed so much in recent years that every third person is dying of cancer? Why are we so helpless? For over ten years I’ve been researching this disease, but never before have my per­sonal experiences shown me more cle­arly that each person can be their own healer. Despite my suffering from can­cer, I was able to succeed in something I now want to share with the world.

This book follows my journey from le­arning about my illness to my healing. I will also tell you about how I returned

to living a healthy and happy life today. After ten years, I have so many things to tell you. I wrote this book for you and dedicate it to the entire world!

Preface

The information, advice and guide­lines mentioned in this book are me­ant to provide information. They do not replace a medical diagnosis, treat­ments or prescriptions for illnesses of any kind. This book seeks to motivate awareness of one’s health and estab­lishing of a healthy routine. However, it does not replace in any way ap­pointments with doctors, therapists and practitioners. The author and publishing house cannot account for inappropriate use. All rights reserved. Without the author’s written consent or legal authorization, no part of this book can be reproduced. This applies to every medium. First German edi­tion.

May this book show you the path to a wonderful, healthy lifestyle.

How everything began

I actually wanted to ban this topic from my life forever. But it’s impossible to erase the past that made you who you are today. I have realized, that it’s best to accept everything that happened to me, because I’m the one who caused everything in my life and I alone am responsible for everything. I have rea­lized now, that accepting situations is easier than to be angry at them. But the most beautiful realization was that to­day, with all these experiences, I make myself happy and proud. I will tell you with this book how I reached this state.

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Every experience comes with something positive!

This is what it’s about: My experience brought me further in life.

I was 29. Six months happily pregnant with my second child. He was a planned child and I knew he was going to be a boy. My wonderful daughter, who was waiting patiently for her little brother, gave me daily belly rubs and talked to him. For her fifth birthday, she only wanted one thing: A little brother to play with. Every evening she prayed with me for a brother. It didn’t quite happen for her fifth birthday, but she knew her mum would have a boy and she was very happy about it. She always loved to talk about all the things they would do together.

How he would be allowed to play with all her things and how she would al­ways look out for him. It was incredibly beautiful to see these feelings of joy in her, that she would stroke my belly and talk to him. The light in her eyes always gave my happiness a huge boost. One morning, I brought my daughter to the kindergarten which she enjo­yed attending, and wanted to go to a check-up appointment at my gyneco­logist right after. She has known me for many years and I like going to her appointments. Which is not a given for gynecologists. Especially during my pregnancy, I was curious as to what is happening in my belly. She is a won­derful, calm woman with angelic stra­ight and blonde hair. Her blue eyes give me the feeling that I can trust her with everything and her voice is so relaxing. It is always fascinating when a person manages to calm their surroundings just with their voice. Since I’m always on the go, I really appreciate a calming aura around other people.

While she was examining me and ex­plaining what was happening in my belly, I told her I’m feeling well. She was happy about it and responded she doesn’t hear that often. This confirmed that my pregnancy was something very special. We talked and looked at the baby’s development in the ultrasound.

Her observations and findings were satisfactory. In passing, I mentioned a bump I had in my right upper arm. I had been noticing it in the shower. It felt hard but didn’t hurt and wasn’t noticeable in any other way, it was sim­ply a bump on the inside of the arm and that was it. However, it had been in the back of my mind and I wanted clarity. After we had finished with the baby check-up, she carefully examined it.

She calmed me down and explained that lymph nodes often form deposits during pregnancy. But for a medical clarification I should see my doctor. She said exactly the words I wanted to hear in order to keep enjoying my pregnancy. I loved this pregnancy, my skin was silky smooth and it radiated beautifully. My eyes had this spark­le. I felt utterly at home in my own body, which isn’t necessarily natural for every becoming mother. But for me, this baby released wonderful en­dorphins. I felt beautiful, strong and most importantly: healthy. The weeks went by comfortably, life felt fanta­stic and I started to prepare myself for my son.

I made all the usual purchases and set up the most important things for him. No matter what I was doing, I always did it with utter joy and serenity. Only when I was in the shower and felt this bobble - which is how I called this lump in my upper arm – I asked